Trim the Tree Baby Shower Ideas for a Christmas Tree Celebration

By Jan Bay

A Trim the Tree Baby Shower is a wonderful way to celebrate a Christmas baby with family and friends while creating lovely decorations that will become treasured memories long after the party is over. Instead of using ordinary holiday ornaments alone, invite guests to help decorate a very special Christmas tree for baby's first Christmas with tiny booties, miniature stockings, personalized ornaments and wishes for the new baby. Trimming the tree becomes the centerpiece of the party, and the ornaments become keepsakes the family can bring out each Christmas.

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Baby Shower Christmas Tree Ideas

The Christmas tree is the star of a Trim the Tree Baby Shower, so I'd start there before buying a single table decoration. Once you've chosen the tree and its colors, the rest of the party is much easier to put together.

What makes a baby shower Christmas tree different from an ordinary holiday tree? The decorations tell a little story about the baby who's on the way. Think miniature stockings, tiny knitted booties, baby rattles made into ornaments, and pretty ribbons with wishes written for the new arrival.

Choosing the Right Tree

You don't need a huge Christmas tree to make this work. A tabletop tree can be just as charming, especially if you're decorating a dining room or hosting a smaller shower.

• Full-size tree: A lovely choice when you're hosting at home and already have a Christmas tree standing. Set aside the lower branches for the ornaments guests will add.
• Three- or four-foot tree: My pick for a dedicated baby shower tree. It's large enough to show off the decorations without taking over the room.
• Tabletop tree: Good for a small party, a gift table, or a shower held in a restaurant's private dining room.

If the tree is going home with the parents-to-be, ask where they plan to display it before buying one. A smaller tree that they can enjoy later makes more sense than a grand display they'll have nowhere to put.

Baby Shower Christmas Tree Decorating Themes

Here are four ways to decorate your tree without making it look like an ordinary Christmas display.

Classic Christmas Baby Tree

Start with deep red, evergreen and warm ivory. Hang tiny stockings, satin ribbon bows, painted wooden ornaments and little baby booties. A few pearl-colored ornaments will lighten the darker colors.

I'd use the red ornaments sparingly and let the ivory decorations stand out against the branches.

Little Snowflake Baby Tree

Use white ornaments, silver ribbon, embroidered snowflakes and small clear baubles with white messages tucked inside. Add a scattering of miniature white mittens for a winter baby shower that doesn't need Santa or reindeer decorations.

Woodland Christmas Baby Tree

Choose wooden stars, little felt woodland animals, cream ribbon and a few pinecone-shaped ornaments. Foxes, rabbits, deer and bears make a sweet combination for a woodland nursery.

Keep the animals small enough that they don't hide the branches. You'll want the tree to look like a Christmas tree, not a display shelf full of decorations.

Little Angel Christmas Tree

An angel-themed tree can be especially pretty with ivory ribbons, simple wings, stars and ornaments carrying wishes for the baby. A single angel at the top is plenty. I'd skip oversized decorations that compete with the smaller keepsakes.

How Many Ornaments Do You Need?

For a three- to four-foot tree, I'd begin with about 12 to 18 ordinary coordinating ornaments, then leave space for the guest-made ornaments. If you expect 15 guests and each will decorate one ornament, you'll have another 15 to add.

That's roughly 27 to 33 ornaments altogether, although the final number depends on their size and how full the branches are. You can always leave some off.

Place the larger ornaments deeper in the branches and hang the little baby keepsakes toward the tips, where guests can see them. Keep the lowest branches clear if little children will be attending.

One last detail: leave a pretty basket beside the tree for ornaments that haven't been hung yet. It saves guests from having to hunt for an empty branch when several people finish decorating at once.

Guest Ornament Decorating Station

Now for the activity that gives this shower its name. Each guest decorates a Christmas ornament for the baby, then hangs it on the tree. By the end of the party, the tree is filled with little gifts made especially for the family.

I'd set up the ornament station where guests can sit down and enjoy themselves. A dining table works well, but a separate folding table is fine if you'd rather keep the food and decorating supplies apart.

What You'll Need for 15 Guests

• 18 lightweight, unbreakable ornaments, allowing a few extras
• 18 short pieces of ribbon or ornament hanging loops
• Permanent paint markers suitable for your chosen ornament surface
• Small name cards or gift tags
• Plain paper for practicing names and messages
• A table covering
• A tray for completed ornaments
• A basket or box for extra supplies

I'd choose unfinished wooden ornaments or another matte surface that's easy to write on. Clear fillable ornaments are pretty, but they take more preparation if you want guests to put little messages inside.

Three Ornament Activities to Choose From

1. Write a Wish for Baby

Give each guest a star, heart or round wooden ornament and ask them to write a short wish for the baby. They can add their name on the back.

Keep a few message ideas nearby for anyone who gets stuck:

• May your Christmases be filled with love.
• Wishing you a lifetime of happy little adventures.
• You are loved more than you know.
• May every Christmas bring you something wonderful.

I like this version because the ornaments actually mean something. The baby may not be able to read the messages for quite a while, but the family can enjoy them long before that.

2. Decorate a Miniature Stocking

Provide small fabric stockings, pre-cut felt shapes and fabric markers. Guests can decorate the stockings with the baby's initials, tiny stars or Christmas designs.

I'd prepare the hanging loops ahead of time and keep the decoration choices simple. Too many supplies can turn a pleasant little activity into a messy craft table.

3. Fill a Clear Keepsake Ornament

Place little slips of paper, narrow ribbon and lightweight paper decorations on the table. Each guest writes a message, rolls it loosely, and places it inside a clear ornament.

Use ornaments with openings wide enough for the folded messages. Try one yourself before buying supplies for the whole party. Some ornaments have surprisingly tiny openings.

Setting Up the Table

Divide the table into three areas. Put blank ornaments and markers at one end, leave the middle open for decorating, and place the finished-ornament tray at the other end.

Allow roughly 10 to 15 minutes for a simple message ornament. If guests will be painting or gluing decorations, allow more time for drying and use the activity earlier in the shower.

Don't hang ornaments with wet paint or glue. Give them time to dry according to the product instructions.

And don't worry about making every ornament match. A tree with handwritten messages, different names and little handmade details is the whole point of the activity.

Trim the Tree Baby Shower Decorations

Once you've decorated the Christmas tree, you've already taken care of the biggest part of the room. Now you can add a few smaller touches that make it feel like a baby shower instead of an ordinary Christmas party.

I'd repeat the same two or three colors throughout the room. That will make even inexpensive decorations look like they belong together.

Mini Christmas Tree Centerpieces

Small Christmas trees look lovely on the guest tables, especially when you give each one a tiny baby-themed decoration.

For a table that seats six to eight people, try one miniature tree in a basket or sturdy container. Decorate it with a few satin bows, small ornaments or miniature knitted booties.

A tree around 12 to 18 inches tall is a practical starting point for a dining centerpiece. Taller trees may block guests from seeing one another across the table.

Set the tree in the middle, then add a few ornaments around the base. I'd stop there rather than crowding the table with a collection of little decorations.

Baby Shower Gift Table

Place the gift table near the Christmas tree if your room has enough space. The wrapped presents become part of the decorations, and guests can easily see where to leave their gifts.

Use a plain ivory tablecloth, a few coordinating ornaments and one small sign reading "Gifts for Baby."

There's no need to make this a second Christmas display. The decorated tree should still be the first thing guests notice.

Welcome Table

A small entry table is a nice place to introduce the theme. Try a miniature Christmas tree, an ornament-shaped welcome sign and a basket for cards.

If you're planning a guest book, put it here with a pen so visitors can sign it when they arrive.

Decorating With Baby Keepsakes

Baby booties, little mittens and miniature stockings can be tucked into Christmas decorations throughout the room.

You might place a pair of knitted baby booties beside the cake, hang tiny stockings from a decorative garland or tie a satin bow around a little keepsake box.

Use just one or two baby-themed details in each area. They'll stand out much more than they would in a room filled with baby bottles and rattles.

Choosing Your Colors

Three color combinations worth considering are:

• Cranberry, ivory and evergreen: Traditional Christmas colors with a slightly dressier look.
• White, silver and pale sage: A wintery combination for a lighter, quieter setting.
• Blush, cream and muted red: Pretty for a baby girl shower without losing the Christmas feeling.

Whichever colors you choose, carry them through the tree, table decorations, dessert display and ribbons. You don't need matching decorations on every surface.

Trim the Tree Baby Shower Invitations and Wording

Your invitations should tell guests that they're coming to a baby shower and that decorating the Christmas tree is part of the celebration. You don't want anyone wondering whether you've invited them to an ordinary tree-trimming party.

An ornament-shaped invitation would be especially cute. A little Christmas tree with baby booties hanging from its branches is another pretty choice.

Classic Trim the Tree Invitation Wording

Short and Sweet Invitation Wording

Invitation Wording for a Couples Shower

Should Guests Bring an Ornament?

You can invite everyone to bring an ornament, but I'd make that optional. Guests are already shopping for baby shower gifts, and there's no need to give them another thing to buy.

If you do want a bring-an-ornament shower, include a simple note on the invitation:

"If you'd like, bring a special Christmas ornament for baby's keepsake tree. We'll also have ornaments to decorate at the shower."

That gives guests a choice, and everyone still gets to join the tree-trimming activity.

Christmas Baby Shower Food and Desserts

A Trim the Tree Baby Shower is a wonderful excuse to serve Christmas treats, but you don't need a full holiday dinner. Unless your shower falls during a regular mealtime, I'd plan a selection of small sandwiches, easy finger foods and a pretty dessert table.

Keep the Christmas tree idea going with a few tree-shaped treats. Then add regular party favorites so there's something for everyone.

Christmas Tree Sandwiches

Make sandwiches with fillings your guests enjoy, then use a Christmas tree cookie cutter to shape them. Larger cutters work best because you lose some bread around the edges.

I'd make the sandwiches first, chill them, and cut the tree shapes closer to serving time so the edges don't dry out.

Mini Christmas Tree Pizzas

Cut baked pizza into triangular pieces and arrange them on a serving tray like little Christmas trees. A small pretzel stick can give each slice the appearance of a trunk, but it's entirely optional.

For a larger shower, ordinary rectangular slices are easier to serve. There's no point making an elaborate shape if half of it falls apart when someone picks it up.

Christmas Tree Vegetable Platter

Arrange broccoli florets in a triangle on a serving board, with cherry tomatoes scattered through them like red ornaments. Use carrot sticks for the trunk.

Put the dip in a separate bowl beside the platter. That keeps the tree shape intact as guests help themselves.

Baby Shower Christmas Cookies

Christmas tree cookies, little stockings and star-shaped sugar cookies make a pretty collection. Use the same icing colors you chose for the decorations.

A few cookies decorated with baby booties or tiny bows will remind guests that this is a baby shower. You don't need every cookie to have a baby design.

Christmas Baby Shower Cake

A simple ivory cake decorated with a miniature Christmas tree, tiny fondant ornaments and a little pair of baby booties would be lovely.

For a centerpiece cake, I'd choose one main design rather than combining Santa, reindeer, snowflakes, baby bottles and Christmas trees all at once.

A small decorated cake surrounded by cupcakes is another good option, especially when you don't want to spend the party cutting and serving cake.

Christmas Tree Cupcakes

Pipe green frosting in a tall swirl on vanilla or chocolate cupcakes. Add a few tiny candy decorations to resemble ornaments, then finish with a little candy star.

They look especially pretty arranged in rows on a white serving tray.

Christmas Baby Shower Drinks

Set up a hot cocoa station with marshmallows, whipped cream and candy cane stirrers. You can also serve sparkling cranberry punch made with cranberry juice, sparkling water and orange slices.

I'd offer plain water and a caffeine-free drink as well. Not everyone wants something sweet.

Planning Food for 15 Guests

For a two-hour afternoon shower that falls between meals, here's a reasonable starting estimate:

• 30 to 45 small sandwiches or savory bites
• One medium vegetable platter with dip
• 18 cupcakes or individual dessert servings
• 18 to 24 decorated cookies
• About 3 gallons of beverages in total, adjusted for the weather and other drink choices

These are planning estimates, not fixed serving requirements. If you're hosting during lunch or dinner, you'll need a more substantial menu. And if you've invited several enthusiastic cookie lovers, a few extra treats certainly won't hurt.

Remember that pregnant guests need extra care with food choices and handling. The FDA's food safety advice for showers and other gatherings covers food preparation, storage and choices to avoid during pregnancy.

Trim the Tree Baby Shower Games and Activities

Since your guests will already be decorating ornaments, you don't need a long list of baby shower games. I'd choose one or two that fit the Christmas tree theme and leave plenty of time for visiting, eating and watching the keepsake tree fill up.

Guess How Many Ornaments

Fill a clear jar with small Christmas ornaments and ask guests to guess how many are inside.

You'll need a jar, small ornaments, paper slips and a container for the guesses. Count the ornaments before the party and write down the total where you won't lose it.

The person with the closest guess wins a small prize. If two people tie, you can have a quick tie-breaking question ready.

This is an easy game to place at the entrance table because guests can participate whenever they arrive.

Christmas Baby Trivia

Try a short Christmas and baby-themed trivia game with questions about familiar holiday traditions and baby items.

Here are five sample questions to get you started:

1. What decoration is traditionally placed at the very top of a Christmas tree? (A star or an angel)
2. What do you call a baby's first set of teeth? (Primary or baby teeth)
3. What popular Christmas plant has bright red bracts that look like flower petals? (Poinsettia)
4. What is the name for the tiny socks or knitted shoes babies wear? (Booties)
5. What is the traditional name for a small gift placed in a Christmas stocking? (Stocking stuffer)

Give guests a few minutes to write down their answers. I'd keep the game short enough that it doesn't interrupt the visiting.

Decorate Baby's Christmas Stocking

Provide one plain fabric stocking for the baby and ask guests to contribute a little decoration or written message.

This works best as a group project with fabric markers. A stocking covered with small signatures, stars and Christmas wishes can be a lovely keepsake.

If you want to use paint, choose fabric paint and allow enough drying time. Don't mix wet paint with the tree-trimming activity unless you have room to keep the projects separate.

Baby's First Christmas Wishes

Cut small cards into ornament shapes and ask guests to write something they hope the baby will enjoy about Christmas as they grow up.

Guests might write about Christmas morning, baking cookies, visiting grandparents or hanging ornaments together.

Collect the cards in a keepsake box or thread them on ribbon to make a little paper garland.

I'd choose this activity if you want something meaningful but don't want another competitive game.

Christmas Baby Gift Bingo

Give guests blank bingo cards with spaces for gifts they think the parents will receive. Before the gifts are opened, everyone fills their card with guesses such as blankets, sleepers, bibs and diapers.

As the gifts are opened, guests mark matching squares. The first to complete a row wins.

Use a five-by-five grid with a free center square, and ask each guest to write a different gift idea in the remaining 24 squares. Repeated gift categories count only once per card.

You don't need to play every game listed here. The ornament activity, one quick guessing game and a little time for opening gifts are plenty for a two-hour shower.

Trim the Tree Baby Shower Party Favors

Christmas ornaments make the most natural favors for a Trim the Tree Baby Shower. Guests can hang them on their own trees, and you won't need to dream up an entirely different party favor idea.

I would keep the favors small and pretty. You've already put thought into the decorations, food and ornament activity, so there's no need for a large goodbye gift.

Personalized Christmas Ornaments

Buy simple wooden or ceramic ornaments and add a small tag that reads "Thank You for Helping Us Trim the Tree."

You can write the shower honoree's name on the tag or leave the ornament plain enough for guests to enjoy every Christmas.

I'd wrap each one in a little tissue paper and place it in a small kraft box or organza bag.

Mini Christmas Stockings

Fill miniature fabric stockings with wrapped chocolates, peppermint candies or other individually packaged treats.

Tie a little thank-you tag around the hanging loop. The stocking itself becomes a decoration guests can use again.

Christmas Tree Cookies

Decorated sugar cookies are an easy favor when you're already serving Christmas treats. Put one or two cookies in a clear food-grade treat bag, then tie it with a ribbon that matches your party colors.

If you're ordering cookies from a bakery, you can usually keep the designs simple and still get a very pretty result.

Little Ornament Gift Boxes

Another option is to fill small ornament-shaped boxes with wrapped candy or a tiny Christmas keepsake.

Display the boxes in a shallow basket near the door so guests can pick one up as they leave.

How Many Favors Should You Make?

Plan one favor per guest, plus two or three extras. For 15 guests, I'd prepare 18 favors.

You can also let guests take home the ornaments they decorated, but make that decision before the shower. If the parents-to-be are keeping the decorated tree, provide separate favors so nobody is confused about which ornaments belong to whom.

That's a little detail worth settling ahead of time.

How to Plan a Trim the Tree Baby Shower

The easiest way to plan this shower is to build everything around the tree. Choose its size, colors and decorating activity first. After that, the invitations, food and table decorations are much easier to sort out.

Here's how I'd organize a shower for about 15 guests.

Four to Six Weeks Before the Shower

• Choose the date, time and location.
• Check the guest list with the parents-to-be.
• Decide whether the decorated Christmas tree will go home with the family.
• Choose a full-size, small or tabletop tree.
• Select two or three decorating colors.
• Send invitations with the ornament activity mentioned.

December calendars can fill up quickly, so I'd send invitations early enough for guests to make arrangements.

Two to Three Weeks Before the Shower

• Buy the tree if you don't already have one.
• Purchase the blank ornaments, ribbon and decorating supplies.
• Choose your cake and other desserts.
• Order or prepare favor packaging.
• Decide which games you'll play.
• Gather the tablecloths, serving trays and any miniature trees.

Before you order a large batch of blank ornaments, decorate one yourself. Make sure the markers write neatly on the surface and the hanging loop fits. It's much easier to change supplies now than on party day.

Two or Three Days Before the Shower

• Put up the Christmas tree and add the basic ornaments.
• Leave open spaces for guest decorations.
• Set up miniature trees and other nonperishable decorations.
• Prepare game cards and answer sheets.
• Attach ribbons and hanging loops to blank ornaments.
• Assemble favors and welcome table decorations.

Keep the ornament supplies together in a box or basket. That way you're not searching for markers, ribbon and tags while guests are arriving.

The Day of the Shower

Set up the decorating station first. Then arrange your food and drinks, allowing for any items that need to be kept chilled or served hot.

Put a finished sample ornament on the craft table so guests can see what they're making. Don't make the example too elaborate. You want everyone to feel comfortable giving it a try.

Sample Two-Hour Party Schedule

Time	Activity
0:00–0:20	Guests arrive, enjoy refreshments and make ornament-count guesses.
0:20–0:45	Decorate keepsake ornaments and begin trimming the tree.
0:45–1:10	Serve food and desserts.
1:10–1:25	Play one short game and announce the winners.
1:25–1:50	Open gifts, if the parents-to-be would like to.
1:50–2:00	Take a picture of the completed tree and hand out favors.

You can change that schedule to suit your guests. If everyone is having a wonderful time making ornaments, there's no reason to interrupt them for a second game.

What Should You Spend Your Decorating Budget On?

If you're working with a limited budget, I'd concentrate on the tree, the ornament activity and the dessert table. Those are the three things that make this shower feel special.

Borrow serving trays, use Christmas decorations you already own and skip matching party supplies you don't really need.

Here's an example of how you might divide a $150 decorating and activity budget, excluding food, invitations and gifts:

• Christmas tree or tree stand: $40
• Blank ornaments and markers: $35
• Ribbon and tree decorations: $25
• Table decorations: $20
• Favor supplies: $20
• Extra supplies: $10

Those are sample budget allowances, not quoted store prices. If you already have a Christmas tree, you can put that money toward nicer keepsake ornaments or save it altogether.

Getting the Decorated Tree Home

If the parents-to-be will be taking the tree home, think about how they'll transport it before guests begin decorating.

For a small tree, use a sturdy container and protect the ornaments from bumping together. For a larger tree, it may make more sense to remove the keepsake ornaments and pack them in a divided ornament box.

Don't try to move a fully decorated tree with glass ornaments hanging from every branch.

I'd also tuck the guest messages into a labeled keepsake box so nothing gets lost when the Christmas decorations are packed away.

Frequently Asked Questions About a Trim the Tree Baby Shower

What is a Trim the Tree Baby Shower?

A Trim the Tree Baby Shower is a Christmas-themed baby shower where guests help decorate a special Christmas tree for the baby. They may bring ornaments, make keepsake decorations or write little wishes that can be hung on the tree.

Do guests have to bring Christmas ornaments?

No. You can provide all the ornaments and supplies at the shower. If you'd like guests to bring something special, make it an optional request on the invitation rather than a requirement.

What size Christmas tree is best for a baby shower?

A three- or four-foot tree is a practical choice for a dedicated keepsake tree. It provides room for guest ornaments without taking up as much space as a full-size Christmas tree. A tabletop tree is fine for a smaller shower.

Can you have a Trim the Tree Baby Shower before December?

Of course! A late November shower works beautifully, especially if your family likes putting up Christmas decorations early. You can even use the theme at another time of year if Christmas has special meaning for the parents-to-be.

What do you do with the ornaments after the shower?

If the parents-to-be are keeping the ornaments, pack them carefully in a divided ornament box or wrap each one separately. Include the guest messages and any name tags so the family can remember who made each decoration.

Can you host a Trim the Tree Baby Shower without a craft station?

Yes. Ask guests to bring an ornament or provide a selection of ready-made ornaments they can hang on the tree. You can still invite everyone to write a Christmas wish on a little card and tie it to a branch.

The best part of this theme isn't how elaborate the decorations are. It's watching a Christmas tree fill up with little wishes and keepsakes for someone who hasn't even arrived yet. That finished tree is a lovely gift for the parents-to-be, and it's something they can enjoy bringing out again when Christmas comes around.

If you'd like to explore more ways to celebrate a baby during the holiday season, take a look at these Christmas baby shower ideas for other festive themes and decorating inspiration.